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🔒Behind the Blog: Queer Belonging When “Home” Hasn’t Been Safe
This Behind the Blog reflection shares why I wrote Queer Belonging When “Home” Hasn’t Been Safe, the care it took to write it, and what I hope readers carry with them during a season that can make family pain feel heavier. This space is an invitation to pause, reflect, and remember that belonging can be built on your own terms.
Behind the Blog: Sitting With 2025
2025 did not land as one clear story. It arrived in fragments. Some heavy. Some tender. Some still unresolved. This reflection sits with what queer and trans communities carried through the year, honoring exhaustion, care, grief, and the quiet ways people kept going.
🔐Behind the Blog: Why We’re Ghosting 2025 and Choosing to Rise
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Behind the Blog: I Took a Week Off
This past week, I didn’t publish. Not because I’ve stopped caring, but because I needed to care elsewhere. My husband and I celebrated six years, his mom visited from out of town, and birthdays filled the air. Life was full. I wondered if anyone noticed the pause, but I realized: since September, I’ve shown up…
🔐Behind the Blog: You’re Not Broken
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Behind the Blog: Taking Up Space
When I finished the last editorial arc, I thought I’d feel ready for what came next. I didn’t. I just felt blank. Not burned out, not sad, just… empty in the way a room feels after you’ve moved all the furniture out. The queer nervous system arc had taken a lot out of me, in…
